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Over the years, I have worked in the corporate world and ran a business. I’ve learned a lot about leadership. I also learned about authenticity and staying grounded in my principles. But recently, I’ve had a realization that surprised me. Sometimes, simply being yourself can feel like an act of rebellion. Living according to your values adds to this feeling. This became even more clear to me when I began reflecting on the man I’ve come to admire deeply. He embodies integrity, intelligence, and truth. He is a high-frequency leader whose love for our country has left an undeniable impact. He is the leader who stands firm in his beliefs, never wavering, no matter the challenge.
He wasn’t even originally interested in power. A prosecutor by profession, he was asked by the Filipino people to run for president. He remained humble. He turned down titles like “Sir.” He understood that he is a servant to the Filipino people, not a figure above them. As mayor, and later as president, his leadership was marked by an unwavering commitment to justice, peace, and service. He didn’t need recognition or accolades—he just wanted to protect the people he was sworn to serve.
What’s most striking about his leadership is how his presence lifted the morale of the police and military. Under his leadership, they weren’t just following orders—they were truly invested in protecting ordinary Filipinos. It wasn’t just a job; it was a shared mission of love for the country. Yet, much of this was never shown on the media. Even today, the stories of his warmth and leadership remain hidden from the mainstream.
In many ways, his values mirror my own. I often see myself in his unwavering commitment to truth. He values authenticity as I do. However, unlike him, I don’t feel the desire to take on a leadership title. Many in my workplace have commented that I possess the qualities of a leader. However, I don’t feel the need to step up in a formal role. Our organization already has a leader, and I’m content where I am. But that doesn’t mean the journey is without its challenges.
The Power of High Principles
Living by high principles isn’t always easy. For me, it means striving to be true to my beliefs. I aim to show integrity in every action. I stand firm in what’s right, even when the world around me might try to push me in another direction. The leader I admire showed me that it’s not about seeking titles or accolades. It’s about staying true to your purpose. This is important, even when no one is watching.
Living this way has its rewards, but it also brings challenges. The more I remain true to my principles, the more I realize a peculiar trend. People around me focus on my actions and behaviors, whether intentionally or unintentionally. When you hold firm to your values, you begin to stand out, and not always in ways that feel comfortable. It’s like a light shining brightly, and some people feel uncomfortable with that.
The Struggles of Being Underestimated
I’ve always considered myself a “simple staff member,” doing my job with integrity and dedication. But even then, people notice. They often tell me, “You can be a leader too.” Yet, this doesn’t always come without its challenges. When you don’t seek the title, people tend to look for flaws. They seek the position of leadership to find something to criticize. They might question your every move. They assume you want to take control. In reality, you’re just trying to stay true to yourself.
It’s painful when others project their insecurities onto you. I’ve learned that this is a reflection of their own struggles. It’s not a reflection of who I am. Staying true to yourself often means accepting that others may try to bring you down. They may find faults in you. This is especially true when they feel threatened by your authenticity.
A manager once told me that I may not realize it, but I am a catalyst for change. I never intended to become that. I simply love to see others enjoy what they do. I allow them to be human—to feel their emotions, whether it’s anger, frustration, or sadness. I believe this is how we shape ourselves as people. I have never wanted to force change or control anyone. But it’s my belief in the power of being authentic that makes others see the potential in me. Still, it’s not always easy. Just like the leader I admire, I, too, have been misunderstood. His words, his principles, are often used against him, twisted by those who don’t understand his true intentions. But his focus has always been on betterment, and mine is the same.
Choosing Integrity Over Titles
I’ve always believed that leadership comes from within. It’s not about holding a title or seeking power. It’s about being true to who you are. You influence those around you through your actions. While others might see me as someone who could be a leader, I’m content in my current role. I don’t need a title to make an impact. I choose to lead by example, standing firm in my principles and ensuring that my actions align with my values.
This choice may not always be the easiest path, but it’s the path that feels right. It’s not about being the loudest voice in the room—it’s about being the most authentic and consistent one.
The Ripple Effect of Being True to Yourself
In a world that often values titles over truth, staying true to yourself can be a quiet act of resistance. I may not seek the spotlight. However, I know that my actions, my integrity, and my commitment to high principles can still inspire change. It doesn’t have to be loud. It doesn’t have to be noticed by everyone. But even the smallest ripple of authenticity can create a wave of impact.
This leader, despite being out of the public eye, has unknowingly sparked a wave of unity across the Philippines. He simply asked the people to stay calm. However, his supporters—ordinary Filipinos—gather every day. They shout for his freedom and rally for the man who stood for them with unwavering love and dedication.
Before all of this, I’d always been proud to be Filipino. However, it wasn’t until recently that I truly understood the depth of that pride. I never felt ashamed of being from this country. Something changed when I saw how the world stood behind the leader I’ve come to admire. International entities especially supported him. They recognized his value and principles, and they weren’t blind to what happened to him. The international community spoke up. They condemned the treatment of this man. This made me feel like the whole world was watching. For the first time, I felt a true connection to my country. I also felt connected to the world that saw him for who he really was.
It’s one thing to have pride in your country because of its culture, its people, and its history. But it’s a different experience to feel that pride reignited. This happens when you see that the values you hold dear are recognized and respected beyond your borders. This leader, with his humility, intelligence, and unwavering commitment to the Filipino people, made me proud to be Filipino. He also made the world see the strength and dignity of our people.
What happened to him was tragic. The injustices he faced reminded me of something so important. Being Filipino isn’t just about living here. It’s about standing up for what’s right, no matter the odds. We are showing the world the strength we have as a nation.
Now, more than ever, I feel connected to my roots. I feel that same love for my country that others have recognized. I am so proud to call the Philippines home. This movement shows unity in the face of adversity. It is a testament to the power of a true leader. This is someone who didn’t need power for himself but gave everything for the people he loved.
A Note to Tatay Digong:
Tatay Digong, you are the reason why I moved to your city, a total stranger with no one I knew. I chose Davao because I wanted my son to grow up in a safe and secure environment. You’ve worked tirelessly to build this place for decades. Davao City is the most livable city in the country, and I am proud to call it home. I admire you so much, and I want to thank you for everything you’ve done. You don’t deserve what is happening to you. Your love for this country has sparked a love for the Philippines in me as well. I will forever be proud of you.
Happy 80th birthday, Tatay. Please come home—come home to the motherland you love so dearly. You deserve to witness the love and unity of the people around the world. They wish for your freedom. They want you to live your life to the fullest. I don’t know how to help you. I hope I won’t fail you. My voice is unheard by the biggest politicians who oppose you. Please know that there are still many of us who stand with you. We will continue to fight for what is right.
Thank you, Tatay!
-From your adopted Davaoeña daughter
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